We've called a cease-fire.
I won't be going out for Christmas dinner with ex in-laws, but I will be having Christmas dinner with ex (and Mini, obviously).
He'll come round for dinner and give Mini his presents then go to his GF's later on.
Immediately after I said it - *worry* ...
* Will anyone think it's ok or be bothered about it? (No, don't be darft)
* Will Mini think anything of it? (I bluddy hope not, mibbe I should send a card to the GF?)
* Will I have to watch endless episodes of Top Gear/Ray Mears/shit our-family-always-watches-this-type-of film? (I have a TV card in the comp plus 2 tellies) ![]()
Thousands of folk do it every year ... getting together at highly emotional times to spend far too long with folk they don't normally get on with 
It'll be fine.
Won't it?
ajnspencer
Pro



Course it'll be fine