We've called a cease-fire.

I won't be going out for Christmas dinner with ex in-laws, but I will be having Christmas dinner with ex (and Mini, obviously).

He'll come round for dinner and give Mini his presents then go to his GF's later on.

Immediately after I said it - *worry* ...

* Will anyone think it's ok or be bothered about it? (No, don't be darft)

* Will Mini think anything of it? (I bluddy hope not, mibbe I should send a card to the GF?)

* Will I have to watch endless episodes of Top Gear/Ray Mears/shit our-family-always-watches-this-type-of film? (I have a TV card in the comp plus 2 tellies) ;)

Thousands of folk do it every year ... getting together at highly emotional times to spend far too long with folk they don't normally get on with :))

It'll be fine.

Won't it?

There's always Skype.