*cough*
It isn't about having 'different rules' or being part of a club.
It's more about there being a better way to deal with things. As a Christian you are accountable to Christ for the way you behave and the things you say.
The 'normal' way to deal with things is to head straight for court. There's a less harsh way, a way that things may be resolved so that all parties will be edified and happier. That's all I was saying.
Maybe I should have explained. I forgot you have to explain. Too many misunderstandings surrounding church. My remark was more aimed at the Christians amongst us. I believe there are some.
*sigh*
A simple sentence and I end up all defensive. I'm not annoyed at anyone, apart from myself