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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 02:10:33 pm
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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 02:11:50 pm
lol maybe
just gotta get the balance right
xxx
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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 02:11:09 pm
Eeep Mr S and I have both nearly had the teeshirt a few times ourselves. We have both had jobs which expect long hours sometimes, it is ok for a short time but not as a longterm plan. It is hard to get the balance right sometimes.
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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 02:14:41 pm
I reckon when //both// are doing that there can be understanding, and that's what keeps people together ... understanding each other's 'plight' (wrong word but I can't think of a better one)
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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 05:00:15 pm
Yeah sort of.
But the guy I was going out with before Mr S used to work evenings and I used to work days and 2 nights a week we never saw each other in the end we drifted apart.
The thing is not to let work take over. It is ok to do overtime to get a bit extra to get a new carpet or go on a lovely holiday but if it starts to becomes the norm and there is no time to play and have fun together ............
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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 05:03:24 pm
Ah yes. That makes sense. Me and my ex used to do the thing where one looks after Mini and one goes to work, then switch round. Not easy at all. x
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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 02:40:29 pm
Did he become a workaholic because it was expected, or because he //thought// that he was expected to?!
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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 03:03:44 pm
Good point. No idea!
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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 02:49:11 pm
I have workaholic tendancies, and mostly it's for short bursts of time when I need to get a huge pile of stuff done, the danger happens when I become a workaholic to avoid stuff I shouldn't.
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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 03:05:02 pm
The idea of it at all just baffles me. Seriously. I'm missing that bit in my human psyche

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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 08:06:23 pm
What baffles me is the way I can be totally over the top about working, then I can go for days and not do anything!! Maybe I'm just obsessive about whatever it is I'm doing at the time, be it work, or whatever!
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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 04:55:21 pm
I wish I could start being a workaholic...well no, perhaps I don't really. Perhaps once a week would be good!
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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 04:58:25 pm
Exactly! *glaring at housework*
It's easy done though, for some, who want lots of 'stuff'.
oooh, then again ... there's those that have cruddy-paid jobs that //have// to work every bleedin hour
(damn, forgot about them!)
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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 05:13:42 pm
life is full of shite it is just the level that changes

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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 05:25:58 pm
That's true!
It's bucketing here, Jack, what's it like at yours?-
- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 06:03:25 pm
glug! glug

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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 05:34:30 pm
Hubby and I have reached a balance of sorts as we believe that relationships are never 50/50 but as long as the combined effort reaches 100% then the relationship will blossom. I think the key is to put the relationship first and individual needs second which is difficult to do.
btw, I 'got' what you meant about the blog diet on your music blog when I was shopping in Walmart early today.
I was thinking about a food diet *natch* hehehehehehe...I can be so daft at times...always thinking about food.
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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 05:38:07 pm
I knew you got it

You and hubby have a frickin amazing marriage, wonderful relationship. It's one I aspire to.
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- Monday, 08. Sep, 2008 @ 12:33:03 am
Thank you sweetheart. There is no doubt in my mind that you will have everything your heart desires. I guarantee it. xxx
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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 07:44:32 pm
LOL! This sums up the entire essence of my blog, the 200-odd posts, the 800-odd comments, 65,000 words and three months of my writing. I might as well not have bothered. xxLuxx
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- Sunday, 07. Sep, 2008 @ 07:51:50 pm
*eep*
Maybe he sent it to Postsecret?
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Which just goes to show. You're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't.