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by subville @ Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 – 12:54:09 pm

I'm getting ill again (paranoia)

Taking on board things 2 people have said in separate places and assuming them to be aimed at me. I'm positive they are. But experience says ... this has happened many times before and you were proved wrong.

In the midst of a family problem just now, maybe it's that that's bringing it on? Maybe the stress is making me feel got at? It's no big deal. Let it go. Maybe it's PMT?

I am fucking phenomenal at this

Should I disguise my worries so that when it passes and I'm proved wrong (?) no-one thinks I'm a total fuckwit?

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- ajnspencer ^Pro
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- Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 @ 01:03:08 pm
Is "Experience" my new pet name?

You have a lot of things on your mind right now hon, that can't be helping.

You are who you are and we like that 'who' nobody's going to think you're a fuckwit.
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- scoobydoofus ^Pro
- Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 @ 01:12:34 pm
Hmm. I think the best thing would be to ask the people involved privately if they are referring to you. That way, you're not exposing yourself publicly, but also you're not sat stewing over it.

But for the record, I think you're great, and if anyone actually is taking pot-shots, they're stupid nobs.

x
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- xmillyxxx ^Pro
- Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 @ 01:18:24 pm
I agree totally with Scoob's..

And you aint no fuckwit..so there!! I loves ya for you! xx
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- LandersUK
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- Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 @ 01:30:45 pm
You're right. No one thinks you're a total fuckwit.
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- Jenniebaby
- Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 @ 01:37:49 pm
I agree with the above.
You are entirely unfuckwitted, and anyone who implies otherwise should be poked repeatedly with a sharp stick.

xx
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- Old-Nick ^Pro
- Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 @ 01:38:54 pm
No thinks bad of you on here.

As suggested above, just pm the person you think has a problem and ask them.

I think you will find out that you were not being got at.

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  - Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 @ 01:45:26 pm
  The first wasn't a friend. I don't get on with them. The second PM'd me, because they are a beautiful soul, and reassured me they weren't having a pop. My head's in bits, Nick. x
  - - scoobydoofus ^Pro
    - Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 @ 04:54:39 pm
    If they're not a friend, don't let it get to you. They don't matter.
    
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- malakeas ^Pro
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- Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 @ 01:59:57 pm
Oh hun. I think everyone gets paranoid and not to downplay what you are going through.

(((Hugs)))
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- Decado66 ^Pro
- Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 @ 02:19:04 pm
If they can't say it to your face ignore them, easy to say I know. I get very paranoid as well and this is the best way I have found to try and deal with it, not sure if it helps or not. *hugs*

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- rowtheboat
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- Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 @ 02:22:34 pm
Listen to that voice of experience, medear.

xx
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- Miza-T
- Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 @ 04:30:54 pm
Yeah...that's the paranoia talking, ignore her, she's a bitch!

xx
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- sminchin ^Pro
- Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 @ 05:24:25 pm
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- MissyMouse
- Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 @ 05:26:01 pm
Ohh hunny, have a big hug from me...I get just like that too and again, I have been sent into a deep place from a few words I thought had been aimed at me from someone at work.

Ain't life crap at times!

xx
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- soyunperdedor ^Pro
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- Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 @ 06:06:59 pm
*snogs* x
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- sweetymon
- Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 @ 08:33:22 pm
Keeping things to yourself can make you feel more paranoid, it's nice to get them out to someone who's not gonna judge you. We won't. Hope that feeling goes away soon xxx
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- QueeneMab
- Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 @ 08:43:14 pm
i don't know what you mean, but I honestly doubt it is aimed at you.

If it is not a friend then even if it is aimed at you so what.

For every person who is rude and unpleasant there will be 5 or more who love you. Focus on them and disregard the bad stuff.

X
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- trintrin1x
- Tuesday, 20. Oct, 2009 @ 10:24:30 pm
I agree with QM! Fuck um they don't live your life xx
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- PurpleDragon
- Wednesday, 21. Oct, 2009 @ 08:14:52 pm
I also agree with Scoobs and all of the above.
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